The relationship between AS individuals and neurotypicals is often framed as **cross-cultural communication**, not a deficit model. **Tony Attwood:** The AS-NT relationship involves people from "different cultures." His role with AS-NT couples is a **translator** — helping each understand the other's way of thinking. **Barbara Jacobs (*Loving Mr. Spock*):** AS and NT are "parallel universes." Discovering AS helped her understand "that other universe" and negotiate relationship difficulties. AS behaviors that appear selfish or callous to NTs are often the result of brain differences, not intent. Understanding AS is the path to solutions. **Source:** Lovett, *Solutions for Adults with Asperger Syndrome*, Ch 1 (p35) See also: [[Simon Baron-Cohen]]